The Hidden Architecture of a Well-Made Dress (And Why You Feel the Difference)

There's this moment that happens in a truly well-made dress that is pretty difficult to explain unless you’ve experienced it.

You zip it up… take a breath…

And suddenly, everything just feels right.

You’re standing straighter;

Your shoulders relax;

Your waist feels supported, not squeezed;

You feel held, not trapped.

That feeling is not magic. It isn't luck.

And it is definitely not accidental.

It is architecture.

Inside view of a custom VdV piece, 2024

Not the kind you see on the outside, but the kind that lives quietly underneath, doing the work you will probably never notice… until you wear a dress that doesn’t have it. That's when it becomes glaringly obvious that something is wrong.

A Dress Is Not Just Fabric and Design

When most people shop for a dress, they are looking at:

• Colour

• Style

• Trend

• Neckline/length

• Price

But what actually determines how a dress feels on your body is what you don’t see:

• Internal structure

• Stabilising layers

• Strategic seam placement

• Support zones

• Weight distribution

• Foundation compatibility

A beautiful dress without internal structure is like building a house with beautiful walls and no foundation.

It may look good on the hanger...

In the industry this is called 'hanger appeal', where some dresses look terrible on a hanger and absolutely fabulous on a mannequin or body).

Custom VdV piece with cape sleeves, 2024

It may even look good for photos... 

If ever I have pieces to prepare for an event or editorial, it's important for me to know if the pieces need to be 'photoshoot ready' or 'runway ready', because things can always be pinned and tweaked for photos, whereas runway records movement. So much time can be saved knowing how a garment is going to be used so that you can focus on the areas that matter for the occasion. By the way, remind me to tell you about the very moment I realised I had been doing too much at a fashion show, which also happened to be when I understood that I had amassed skills that other designers didn't even have simply because I wasn't trying to use cheat codes when I was learning how to design and create.

But it will not carry you comfortably through hours of movement, sitting, dancing, hugging, eating, and breathing... like a normal human being.

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The Secret Layers No One Talks About

A well-made dress often contains multiple hidden elements working together in one accord.

Stabilising Base Layers

These prevent stretching, pulling, and twisting once the dress is on the body.

Internal Support (Boning, Structure, Reinforcement)

This is what helps a bodice stay where it should, which is particularly important in strapless or structured gowns.

Dresses at various stages of construction in the VdV studio

Good structure means:

• Less pulling up (I can't tell you how much I hate seeing this!)

• Less adjusting

• Better posture naturally (and a good pair of heels also adds to good posture)

• Better bust support

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Weight Distribution Design

In formalwear and bridal especially, dresses can be heavy.

A well-made dress spreads weight across the body so one area isn’t carrying everything.

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Seam Engineering

Yes... seam placement is engineering.

Seams can:

• Sculpt and create illusions of shape

• Lengthen visually

• Support curves

• Reduce pulling across stress points

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Why Two Dresses Can Look Similar, But Feel Completely Different

This is one of the biggest surprises clients experience.

Two dresses can look nearly identical online. I mean, come on, we've all seen those "what I ordered vs what I got" posts, or "designer vs budget". 

When worn:

One feels:

• Stable

• Supportive

• Comfortable

• Secure

The other feels:

• Tight in the wrong places

• Loose where support is needed

• Restrictive when sitting or moving

• Like you are constantly adjusting yourself

The difference is almost always internal construction. Think of it like a multi-layered cake - without a good foundation, proper cake base, all the dowels that keep the layers from collapsing on each other... everything would flop.

This Is Why “Fit” Is Not Just About Size

True fit is about how the garment and body work together in motion.

A well-built dress considers:

• How you breathe

• How you sit

• How you turn

• How fabric reacts to body heat (some brides need special assistance with sweating issues on their wedding day)

• How structure shifts over hours of wear

This is why two dresses in the same size can feel worlds apart.

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The Emotional Side of Good Construction

Here’s the part no one talks about enough:

When a dress is built properly, your brain stops thinking about it.

You are free to:

• Be present

• Enjoy your event

• Move naturally

• Focus on memories instead of maintenance

That is luxury.

Not just price. Not just brand.

But peace inside the garment.

Why This Matters Even More in Bridal and Formalwear

These garments are worn during emotionally and physically intense days.

You are:

• Moving constantly

• Being photographed constantly

• Hugging people

• Sitting and standing repeatedly

• Often wearing the dress for 8–14 hours

Without proper internal architecture, small discomforts can become big distractions and a bit of a nuisance.

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The Slow Fashion Connection

Slow fashion is not only about sustainability.

It is about intention.

A well-made dress:

• Lasts longer

• Performs better

• Requires fewer emergency fixes

• Creates less stress for the wearer

• Often needs fewer alterations

And most importantly:

It respects the body wearing it.

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The Part Most Clients Never See

When I build a custom piece, a large portion of the time is spent on elements that will never be visible in photos, because preparation is everything.

Inner construction on a custom VdV gown, 2026

Hidden stitching. Hidden reinforcement. Hidden layers - interlining, boning, padding.

Those invisible details are what allow you to feel confident, supported, and comfortable on one of the biggest days of your life.

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The Truth

If a dress looks beautiful but feels stressful to wear, then it's probably not well made.

Beauty should never come at the cost of comfort, confidence, or peace of mind. That being said, where extreme shaping or support has been requested, there will be some degree sacrifice on comfort as you know it, as the piece pulls you into the correct posture and fit, but you should still be able to move and breathe and do all the things.

The best dresses do not fight your body; they work with it... Quietly. Consistently. Reliably.

And when that happens, you don’t just look good; you feel like yourself, at your very best.

So, if you ever wondered why some dresses just feel different, now you know.

It was never just about the fabric or the label on the inside.

It was always about what was holding everything together underneath.

With Love,

What Bridal Design Has Taught Me About Dressing for Any Special Occasion

People often assume that bridal design exists in its own category, that wedding dresses are somehow separate from “real life” clothing. In truth, bridal has been my greatest teacher when it comes to dressing all types of bodies for all types of meaningful moments.

When you strip away the lace, the beading, and the drama, bridal design is really about the following:

fit, structure, intention, and confidence.

Those lessons apply just as much to a graduation gown, a prom dress, a gala look, or any once-in-a-lifetime event where you want to look, and feel, unforgettable.

Custom Van der Vlugt graduation gown, 2025

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1. The Foundation Always Comes First (Even When No One Sees It)

Bridal has very quickly taught me that a dress is only as good as what’s underneath it.

A beautifully designed gown can collapse, twist, or sit incorrectly if the foundation isn’t right, whether that foundation is proper underwear, internal boning, built-in structure, or simply understanding how the body carries weight.

This is just as true for:

• Prom dresses with dramatic slits or low backs**

• Graduation looks that need to sit correctly for hours

• Formal wear that must look good standing, sitting, and moving

The biggest mistake I see outside of bridal is people choosing a dress first and hoping everything else magically works around it. Bridal teaches you to reverse that thinking: start with what you have and build the look around that. 

**Side note: I will not do overly revealing or vulgar designs for young/teenage girls. Please be guided accordingly when booking your consultation with VdV.

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2. Your Body Is Not the Problem... It's The Garment

One of the most important lessons bridal reinforces is this:

The dress should adapt to the body, not the other way around.

Brides come in all shapes, proportions, heights, and bone structures. There is no “standard” body, and yet bridal works because the design process respects that truth.

That mindset carries over beautifully into special occasion wear. Whether someone is tall, petite, curvy, athletic, or still growing into their body (as many teens are), the issue is rarely their shape... it’s whether the garment was designed with intention.

Graduation fittings in the VdV studio, 2025

When you dress with that understanding, confidence changes immediately.

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3. Fit Is About Balance, Not Tightness

Bridal design teaches restraint.

It’s not about pulling everything in as tightly as possible. It’s about balance: where the eye travels, how proportions are distributed, and how comfort supports confidence.

Showing more skin up top? Then cover up or use more volume in the lower half of the dress.

Want to show off your legs? Then the concept works vice versa. Everything is balance.

For prom and graduation clients especially, this matters. A dress that looks great for photos but feels restrictive, unstable, or distracting will never truly shine. In recent times, we've seen graduation/prom dresses transform into a different type of circus, with swaths of fabric, feathers or flowers pooling into ridiculous mermaid trains around the ankles of petite young girls who cannot possibly walk in the dress or carry the design in a way that truly makes them - and it - look great. 

Bridal has taught me that when someone feels secure in their dress, they move differently. They stand taller. They enjoy the moment instead of worrying about the garment.

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4. The Process Matters Just as Much as the Final Look

One of the quiet gifts of designing and creating attire for bridal is time.

There is space to think, refine, adjust, and make intentional decisions. That process creates garments that feel thoughtful rather than rushed - and that same kind of care is what elevates any special occasion look.

While not every event allows for a full bridal timeline (around 6-8 months or even a year in advance), applying a bridal mindset - planning early, understanding your options, and making informed choices - almost always leads to better results.  

This is especially important for milestone moments like graduations and proms, where emotions run high and memories last forever. Rushed timelines mean rushed fittings and rushed production; a short notice deadline means less options when it comes to sourcing spectacular fabrics and finishings, as well as less time spent in the actual "design and refine" process.

Details on a graduation gown in the VdV studio, 2025

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5. Dressing for a Moment Is About More Than Trends

Bridal design exists slightly outside of trends... and that’s a great thing.

It prioritises timelessness, craftsmanship, and meaning. When you bring that philosophy into dressing for special occasions, you stop chasing what’s popular and start focusing on what feels right for the moment and for you.

Your photos won’t date poorly; 

Your memories won’t be overshadowed by discomfort;

And your confidence won’t depend on comparison.

Bridal has taught me that clothing is never just about fabric and fit - it’s about how someone feels walking into a key moment of their life.

Whether you’re saying “I do,” walking across a stage, stepping onto a dance floor, or celebrating a milestone, the same principles apply:

• Thoughtful design

• Proper foundation

• Respect for the body

• And trust in the process

Those lessons don’t belong only to brides. They belong to anyone who wants to show up fully, comfortably, and confidently when it matters most.

If you’re planning for a graduation, prom, or special event and want guidance rooted in experience and not trends, early conversations make all the difference.

Due to the official start of wedding season, spaces for graduation & prom dresses are limited. 

Get in touch to set up your consultation at the VdV studio today, by sending an email to info@houseofvdv.com 

With Love,

The Custom Experience Is Not the Boutique Experience

 

This is one of the first things I explain to potential clients, and it’s also one of the most important things to understand before choosing between a boutique gown and a custom-made piece.

They are not the same experience.

Neither is better or worse, but they are fundamentally different. And when expectations don’t align with the process, that’s where disappointment can creep in.

There Is No Rack to Browse

In a boutique, the experience begins with a rack of dresses. You arrive, you browse, you try things on. There is instant visual feedback - this works, this doesn’t, I like this neckline, I hate that fabric. It satisfies the very human desire for instant gratification.

In a custom studio, that rack does not exist.

Every piece I create is made from scratch. There is no stock; there are no samples waiting to be tried on the moment you walk in. You’re not stepping into a space to select a finished dress... you’re stepping into a space to create one. 

That can feel unfamiliar, especially in a world where we’re used to seeing things immediately on our bodies.

Because of this, I often encourage clients to try on dresses should the opportunity arise. Trying things on helps you learn what works for you, but just as importantly, what doesn’t. That information becomes incredibly valuable when we move into the custom design phase.

The Boutique Experience Has Its Own Magic

There is something undeniably special about the boutique experience, particularly for brides.

It’s social. It’s emotional. It often includes an entourage of loved ones offering feedback, opinions, encouragement, and tears. It’s the experience we’ve seen in movies and on reality TV: champagne, mirrors, dramatic reveals.

For many brides, that experience is deeply meaningful, and it absolutely has its place.

But it’s important to understand that a custom experience offers a different kind of magic.

A Custom Dress Is Built Around You, Not the Other Way Around

With a custom piece, you are not trying to fit yourself into a dress. 

The dress is being built for you.

Van der Vlugt bespoke lace bridal gown, 2020

From the very beginning, your body, proportions, posture, lifestyle, and personal style are part of the conversation. You are involved in the design process - not just approving a final look, but shaping how it comes to life.

You see your dress begin as something humble and unassuming - often a basic brown cotton toile - and slowly evolve into something extraordinary over the course of fittings. That transformation is intentional. It allows structure, fit, and balance to be perfected before luxury fabrics and finishes are introduced. It helps us to nail down every aspect of foundation and form, before moving onto the details of decoration and finishing (which I call "the fairy godmother effect"), and ensures nothing gets wasted in the process.

This is also why your first fitting is not about perfection. I'm very transparent with my clients about how unglamorous first fittings are and how important that first basic fitting is for me as the creator of the gown.

The first fitting is about establishing foundations:

• Placement

• Proportion

• Structure

• Comfort

Perfection comes later, once the bones of the garment are correct. 

Energy, Environment, and Intention Matter

This is something not everyone talks about, but many clients feel deeply connected to it.

When your dress is made custom, it hasn’t been worn by other people. It hasn’t passed through dozens of bodies, mirrors, or fitting rooms. From a spiritual and emotional standpoint, the energy poured into the piece begins with you.

You know exactly who is making your dress;

You know where it’s being made;

You know the environment it’s being created in.

There is something powerful about that connection - about being part of the process from the very beginning rather than entering the story at the end.

The Process Is Collaborative and Flexible

One of the greatest advantages of custom work is that the process allows for evolution.

As your dress comes to life:

• You can see how ideas translate into reality

• You can make informed decisions along the way

• You can pivot if something no longer feels right

This doesn’t mean endless changes - but it does mean that your voice is part of the journey, not just the final reveal.

By the time you reach your final fitting, you haven’t just received a dress - you’ve witnessed its creation, from zero to hero.

Van der Vlugt custom graduation gown fitting, 2025

Your Dress Can Only Ever Be Yours

Perhaps the most significant difference of all is this:

A custom dress can only ever belong to you.

No other woman will purchase the same design. No one across the world will step into the same gown. Your photos will reflect something entirely one of a kind: created for your body, your moment, and your story.

In a time when images travel fast and trends cycle quickly, there is something deeply grounding about wearing a piece that exists nowhere else.

Choosing the Experience That Fits You

Some clients want the excitement of trying on gowns immediately, hearing opinions, and saying “yes” in the mirror that same day.

Others want intention, craftsmanship, privacy, and a garment that unfolds slowly and deliberately.

Neither choice is wrong, but they are not interchangeable.

Understanding the difference allows you to choose the experience that truly aligns with who you are, how you make decisions, and what you want to remember long after the day itself has passed.

And that, more than anything, is where the beauty lies.

With Love,

Is the Custom Process For You?

 

Custom design is not for everyone, and that's okay!

Before committing to a custom garment, it’s important to be honest with yourself about the type of person you are, how you make decisions, manage uncertainty, and engage in a creative process. I'm writing here not to convince you, but to help you decide.

Van der Vlugt bridal corset under construction, 2025

Custom Might Be for You If…

You value fit and craftsmanship over speed.
Custom work takes time. There is no instant try-on, no same-day decision, and no final result at the first fitting. If you understand that true fit is built gradually, not immediately, custom may be a good match for you.

You want the garment designed around your body, not adjusted to it.
Custom design starts with your proportions, posture, comfort, and movement. If you’ve often felt that dresses are “almost right, but never quite,” custom allows the garment to be built for you from the start, with you in mind.

You can trust a process without needing to control every step.
Custom work is collaborative, but it isn’t micromanaged. You’ll be guided, informed, and consulted - not asked to oversee every technical decision. If you’re comfortable allowing an expert to lead while keeping you involved at the right moments, the process tends to be smooth and rewarding. You hired the experts; now, let the experts do the work.

You are comfortable with things being unfinished before they are refined.
Early fittings are about structure, balance, and proportion, not beauty or perfection. If you can tolerate garments looking incomplete while the foundations are being established, you’ll likely enjoy the journey.

You can visualise, or are open to being guided when you can’t.
Custom design often requires imagining the end result before it exists. If visualising doesn’t come naturally to you, that’s okay, as long as you’re open to guidance, reference images, and trust in the process rather than needing constant visual confirmation (which can lead to micromanaging mentioned above).

You want something truly one of a kind.
A custom garment exists only once. It is designed, made, and finished specifically for you. If exclusivity and intentionality matter to you, custom delivers that inherently.

Custom May Not Be for You If…

You become easily anxious when you can’t see immediate results or be in constant contact.

If uncertainty causes stress rather than excitement, the gradual nature of custom work may feel overwhelming. The intervals between fittings will have you overthinking to the point that...

You need frequent reassurance or repeated confirmation.
Custom design requires trust and patience. If you find yourself needing constant check-ins or validation at every stage, the process may feel tense rather than enjoyable... for both of us.

You tend to micromanage when under pressure.
Custom work relies on skilled execution behind the scenes. If relinquishing control feels uncomfortable, the process can become frustrating for both client and maker. And whatever energy you give is the energy being put into the project at the end of the day.

You struggle to visualise and feel uncomfortable relying on expertise.
If you need to see a finished version before committing to decisions - and are uncomfortable proceeding without that - a boutique experience may feel safer.

You are driven primarily by speed or budget.
Custom garments reflect time, labour, and craftsmanship. They are not designed for urgency or bargain-seeking. 

Once you are a client, once I have all your patterns in my database, then you can maybe message me on a whim for an event you have in three weeks' time because we have already gone through the process before, but definitely not for a first-time custom client.

The Right Process Creates the Right Outcome

Choosing custom isn’t about being more stylish, more bridal, or more “serious” about fashion. It’s about alignment.

When expectations match the process, custom design becomes an experience that feels thoughtful, calm, and deeply personal. When they don’t, even the most beautiful garment can feel stressful. The best results come when both client and maker can move through the process with trust, clarity, and mutual respect.

And that’s when the real magic happens - quietly, intentionally and without rush.

With Love,

Why I Hate Alterations (And When I’ll Actually Do Them)

Let’s get one thing straight: alterations are not my favourite thing in the world. In fact, I often tell clients, “Given the choice, I would almost always make the piece from scratch.” 

Why? 

Because altering a dress is often more work than making it from the ground up. And yes, I mean way more work.

When you alter a garment - especially a wedding gown or heavily beaded couture creation - you’re not just sewing in a seam. You’re deconstructing it... and then reconstructing it. Twice as long, twice as much delicate handling, twice the headaches. Lace, beading, boning… all of it has to come off first, just so I can assess what’s actually possible. And that’s before the actual alteration even begins. This is also when the client has long left the fitting appointment where they already asked for an estimation of time and cost. Fun times.

Here’s the kicker: because I didn’t make the dress, I don’t know how it was built until I open it up. Suddenly, what seemed like a minor fix can spiral into a full-on investigation. Every layer tells a story, and sometimes I find techniques or shortcuts from the original designer that weren’t ideal to begin with... and now it’s my job to make it right.

Then there’s the surprise flaws problem. Occasionally, while working on an alteration, I’ll find imperfections that the original manufacturer left behind - things the client didn’t notice, or assumed I was supposed to fix. That leaves me in a tricky position: Do I fix something that was never my problem, or leave it and risk looking incompetent? It's not exactly the fun part of dressmaking.

Deconstruct to reconstruct takes twice as long

The Cost Misconception

One thing I cannot stress enough: the cost of alterations has nothing to do with what you paid for the garment.

Whether your dress was $300 or $3,000, the work required to alter it is based entirely on complexity, time, materials, and construction, not retail price. A couture-level gown with layers of tulle, hand-sewn lace, or intricate beading will always require more time, skill, and attention than a simpler mass-market dress.

If someone assumes that because their gown was “expensive,” the alterations should be cheap... that’s not how craftsmanship works. Good work takes time, skill, and care, regardless of the price tag on the original dress. That being said, I'm reminded of a time a client brought me a fast fashion romper from Forever 21, and in both our delusions asked me to turn it into something grand for her wedding, with lace inserts and the like. Only upon taking apart one seam did I realise that the fabric was basically eating itself every time it went under the needle and the entire project was a nightmare before I could even begin. So, expecting that a cheaply-bought, cheaply-made piece using weak materials will also cost less to alter is rather unreasonable. In fact, that's even more work to salvage.

So, When Will I Do Alterations?

I’ll absolutely do specialised couture and bridal alterations - particularly when lace, beading, layers, or structural elements are involved - mainly because there's so few of us who can do that type of work. However, if your alteration is “just a small hem” or “take in the side seam,” that’s seamstress work- and frankly, it feels like an insult to the artistry of couture, and the value of my time and purpose in the studio. I really implore anyone to consider carefully whether the job they need to get done requires a designer or a seamstress. It will save you time, money and unnecessary stress.

Here’s my advice to clients:

• Understand the difference between basic seam adjustments and couture-level alterations. One requires a skilled technician, while the other requires an experienced specialist.

• Expect specialised work to take time and likely to cost more than expected. (This should be part of your outfit budget from the very start, by the way.)

• If you want a perfectly executed piece? Start from scratch whenever possible.

Alterations are a necessary evil, but the right foundation - and mindset - will make the process as smooth as possible. And for me, they’ll always be secondary to creating something designed and made just for you.

With Love,

Preparing for Your First Fitting: A Simple Checklist

Your first fitting is the starting point for creating a garment that fits beautifully and reflects your personal style. Being prepared allows the process to be smooth, efficient, and productive. Here is a practical checklist to help you arrive ready and confident:

1. Undergarments

Bring a bra that represents your usual lift and shape - lightly padded or more structured, as you prefer. Sports bras should be avoided. If you plan to wear shapewear on your event day, bring it along, too. This helps us build the dress with your body exactly as you intend it to be.

2. Shoes

Wear the heels you plan to wear on the day, or something very close in height and style. Shoe height changes posture, proportions, and how the hem will fall - small differences matter, otherwise it wouldn't be custom.

3. Clothing

Wear simple, fitted clothing over your undergarments, preferably neutral colours. Avoid bulky tops or anything with strong textures that could interfere with assessing your body shape during consultation and measurement-taking. A slim maxi dress that you can easily remove or leggings and a vest top is perfect. 

4. Hair

Tie your hair back or keep it neat. This allows us to check necklines, straps, and back details accurately. Loose hair can hide important lines and affect fitting decisions.

5. Mindset

Bring patience and openness. Fittings are a process of refinement - some changes happen over multiple sessions, and small adjustments now save frustration later. I always say that some fittings are for me and not the client, as they help me make the seemingly minor but very crucial adjustments to patterns and samples moving forward. Some fittings are for the client to see the progress and vision coming to life, but others may seem quite boring and unproductive... trust me, they aren't!

6. Notes & Questions

If you have concerns about comfort, movement, or style, write them down. Fittings are the perfect time to clarify and ensure the garment aligns with your expectations. Make sure your thoughts and desires are expressed. It's of utmost importance to me to hear your voice and not the voices and opinions of everyone else around you.

Basic fitting underway at the VdV studio, 2025

By arriving prepared, you give yourself and your designer the best opportunity to create a garment that fits beautifully, moves naturally, and truly represents your style. Each fitting is a step toward the final moment when you see yourself in a dress that feels made for you... because it is.

You can read the more detailed version of this article here

See you in the studio soon!

With Love,

What to Bring or Wear to Every Dress Fitting (And Why It Matters)

 

Dress fittings are not just about trying on a garment - they are about creating a reliable foundation on which a dress can be built, refined, and perfected. What you wear to your fitting directly affects the accuracy of measurements, the success of structure, and ultimately how the finished piece fits and feels on your body.

Photography by Luvo Photography, 2020

Coming prepared allows the fitting process to be efficient, focused, and productive. It also helps manage expectations on both sides and avoids unnecessary adjustments or emergency fittings later on. Here is what you should always wear - or bring - to every fitting, and why each item matters.

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1. A Proper Bra (This Is Non-Negotiable)

A good bra is essential, particularly for structured, corset-based, or fitted garments. It acts as the template for everything that happens above the waist, and is particularly useful for much smaller busts that need more shape, and larger busts that need support, but also those who have uneven busts... basically, you need to bring a bra.

Choose a bra that:

• is lightly padded or more, depending on your comfort and fit preference, but definitely some sort of padding

• places your bust exactly where you want it to sit

• offers lift, support and stability that you desire

This bra determines bust placement, neckline proportions, and internal support. It gives me, the designer, the template for building your garment and placing seams, boning and padding correctly. If you come to a fitting without one (or wearing a sports bra) it compromises the entire structure-building process.

Important note:

Do not attend a corset-based fitting without a bra.

And please do not wear a sports bra! It compresses and flattens rather than lifts, giving a false impression of shape and volume that cannot be built upon accurately.

If you are unsure which bra is appropriate, ask ahead of time. It is always better to clarify than to guess.

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2. Shoes (Or the Closest Possible Alternative)

Shoes are not just about hem length - they influence posture, stance, and how the garment falls on the body.

Ideally, bring the exact shoes you plan to wear for the event.

If those are not yet chosen or haven't arrived yet, bring a pair with a similar heel height and style to what you plan to wear. 

Even small differences in height can affect proportions, balance, and how the dress interacts with your movement. Your posture in flats versus heels is noticeably different, and that change matters during fitting, especially when fitting the lower part of the body.

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3. Shapewear (If You Plan to Wear It or Are Accustomed to It)

If you intend to wear shapewear on the day of your event - or if you normally wear it - it should be worn to your fittings.

Shapewear affects:

• how fabric sits on the body

• how seams are placed

• how compression and structure interact

This is particularly helpful for:

• more mature clients

• plus-sized clients

• bodies with non-standard proportions

That said, shapewear is not exclusive to any one body type. It is simply a tool - and like all tools, it works best when it is accounted for from the beginning. Have a read about the importance of shape wear and foundation garments, no matter what type of body you have.

If you are unsure whether shapewear is necessary for your garment, bring it anyway. We can assess its usefulness together during the fitting.

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4. Seamless, Neutral Undergarments

When possible, wear undergarments in nude, beige, or tones close to your skin colour. 

Avoid:

• heavy lace

• thick seams

• bold colours

These can interfere with assessing fabric opacity, fit, and line placement, especially in lighter or more delicate materials.

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5. Hair Worn Simply (or Tied Back)

Your hairstyle doesn’t need to be final, but it should be:

• neat

• out of the way

This allows proper assessment of:

• necklines

• straps

• backs

• shoulder balance

Loose hair can obscure important details and distort how a garment reads on the body.

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6. Minimal Makeup (Optional, But Helpful)

Heavy makeup is not required for fittings and can sometimes transfer onto garments. A clean or lightly made-up face is perfectly fine and often preferable, especially when working with light-coloured fabrics.

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7. An Open Mind... and Patience

Finally, bring yourself in a cooperative, relaxed mindset. Fittings are a process. Adjustments are normal. Refinement takes time.

Please do not bring an entourage to your fittings. As exciting as it may be for you to share the experience with others, too many voices can disrupt valuable appointment time and productivity, and too many opinions of those closest to you can distort communication between you - the actual client - and the professional, your designer. Bringing anyone who was not present in the early stages of consultation and design review will inevitably lead to questions and opinions that would have been addressed at those times, and be a waste of precious time together. My recommendation is to always bring one (the same) trusted friend or family member throughout the process - if anyone at all - and when it is time for final fitting or garment collection, a full reveal fitting can be planned with whoever you would like to see the end result.

Your body may fluctuate slightly between fittings, and that is okay. The goal is not instant perfection, but progressive improvement. With this in mind, and knowing your body better than I do, bear in mind things like your menstrual cycle when planning fittings, whether it affects your overall mood, bloating or will even be something to consider for the timing of your wedding day or event.

Trust the process, communicate honestly, and remember that fittings are where the magic quietly happens.

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Coming prepared to your fittings is one of the simplest ways to ensure the best possible outcome for the process and your garment. It saves time, prevents unnecessary revisions, and allows the focus to remain where it should be - on creating a piece that fits beautifully, moves comfortably, and feels like you.

Preparation is not about perfection. It’s about giving the process the respect it deserves.

With Love,